Small things for a large change

It was April, I started exploring things. I traveled to a hell lot of places and lived upon the benevolence of others.

I realized one thing a lot of people care about me and I could relentlessly sit on my sofa 24*7 wasting time on Instagram and Twitter without requiring the need to care much about personal development.

At this point of my life, many people will yell and say you got nothing to worry about. You are free.

These moments compels me to think. Am I free? I look back at my past and realize I haven’t done or achieved anything substantial. I am not productive. To most people attaining nirvana is being productive, which clearly I wasn’t.

Does failure teach anything? No.

What’s the first thing that pops up your mind when you fail to achieve or accomplish something? Does failure teach anything? The answer is simple. Failing is not good. In other words, it’s terrible.

Of all the things that can happen when you are trying to do something, failure is what you would want the least. Failure will not only destroy the task but also will devastate you. In most cases you will get irritated and would want to kill yourself.

Conclusion? Failing is not good. Stop pretending that you can learn things from being a failure.

We are in the super era of competition where everyone gets stumbled upon once in his or her lifetime. Now people will want to make failing an important part of life and voila! Everybody is failing and sharing their post-failure success story.

The simple reason you cannot learn anything from failure is that because the moment of failure is dreadful. Each lost moment tells a different aspect of yours in the present – when you are lying on the floor crying or being in the bathroom sobbing.

Stop grumbling. Instead of hitting a new level of failure every time to learn things – life hacks, try to learn from other siblings of the word ‘failure’.

Life is what you make it. Is it so? (Part 2-3)

– Speaking-Talking

Let’s say, You really don’t have to talk as much as you do.
The average human says 10,000 words a day. Maybe cut that in half. Or say nothing.
I tried saying nothing for a whole day the other day. It’s hard. But it felt like magic when I finally spoke again. I valued every word that came out of my mouth.
But try to talk less when you’re young and know nothing.

Believe

Life is what you make it: Is it so? (Part 1-3)

Life’s memorandum.Now the prodigy singer,Snoop Dogg says he wants to be CEO of Twitter. This sounds absurd but maybe it isn’t.
I’ll tell you why in a few moment.
But first: common life mistakes we commit:

Inner Peace: What is the best thing you have ever done to achieve inner peace?

Background:

I was broken. I was suspended for an entire semester in my college days because of which the relation with my parents hit a temporary low. I stopped borrowing money from them. They tried sending money but I was too egotist to accept “their” money.

Thank you all- Happy World Friendship Day

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.So another crappy day? What’s special? Well of not the day but the people to whom the post dedicates to are definitely special. My aim is to thank most people(possible & friends). To me, friends are living Gods.

Abandoning the gap between Hindus And Muslims

abandoning the gap between Hindus And Muslims

My urdu site(site where i learn)

Well, that’s a highly controversial topic I now. For background information let me tell you that I belong to a Hindu family and the family has been a sort of a part of pure-hindu(or the way they call it, having modified it).I naturally when was a kid used to hate all muslims ( My apologies to all my friends, it wasnt my fault). There were atrocities in name of Islam(terrorism mainly).

Thus is what people living across India think about you as a woman if you are still single

This was worth sharing

While marriage is definitely a beautiful institution in which a couple share their lives with each other, many couples also say they were better off being single.